Shop Mobile More Submit  Join Login
Unless you can support them don't have them! by PurplePhoneixStar Unless you can support them don't have them! by PurplePhoneixStar
I hate seeing pregnant women who end up on government support and then just stay on it for life and keep having kids. We have 7 BILLLION people on this planet. I am not against people having kids but it seems the one that cannot support it keep having them. Now don't get me wrong, I am not against a woman on welfare if she is having a hard time such as medical issues or loss of a job but we should make the system harder to abuse.

Also I think the parents of pregnant teenagers should be punished too so that they will get more involved. My mom was involved in my life and I never got pregant. My fiancee's brother's mom not involved and he got a girl pregnant. Do the math.

Rant done.
Add a Comment:
 
:iconsnlckers:
SNlCKERS Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I agree. :+fav:
Reply
:iconwhitepedal25:
WhitePedal25 Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2014
That's right, of course with people who are single or in a relationship their relatives always ask, 'When are you going to have kids?" Uh hello! If they don;t want kids don't force them! We already have enough kids in the system who are in foster care, orphanages because some people can't afford them or never wanted them in the first place.

Why are people so obsessed with a young couple or a young person having children when they don't want any?
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Still trying to figure it out. A child's welfare is more important than anything. If you can't emotionally or physically don't have them. If you can only part-time volunteer with kids charities or so. Big Brothers Big Sisters is great. Helping kids is not about dna.
Reply
:iconwhitepedal25:
WhitePedal25 Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2014
Exactly, apparently is society the routine is , man and woman fall in love, get married and have kids, those are the things that we were indoctrinated with since we were born because that's how people view domestic life. Most people are unaware that people don't have children because they can't physically or preferred to not have children and just be married, it's because people don't know the real picture of what reality is and only see what people put on T.V., listen to other people who tell them those unrealistic things like parents, friends who have no kids, pastors and such.

People like that don't want to tell young people about abortion, unplanned pregnancy, or god forbid adoption and put pressure on the people who can't handle kids.
Reply
:iconfanfics4ever:
fanfics4ever Featured By Owner Jul 5, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
my graduation from high school my dad threw a party for me and my sister, and many of my relatives asked me "so what're you gonna do now?"
I said "I dunno..."
"What do you mean 'you don't know'?!"
In their eyes I should've already knocked up a girl and have my entire life planned out. Excuse me? I can barely afford to support myself, let alone another person AND a kid.
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I am nearly 25 and if someone says that I will punch them. I can't support a kid! My fiancee and I mentor a kid and she is like a daughter to us but still, that's enough!
Reply
:iconfanfics4ever:
fanfics4ever Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Two of my step sisters had kids before they were ready. They're doing great not, but they weren't starting out.

i seriously don't think I'd be a good parent. Id be the 'my word is law, I don't care what you think' kind of parent, and I HATE those kinds of parents!
Reply
:iconh-omokit:
h-omoKit Featured By Owner Jun 25, 2014
Same with pets and all that kind of stuff.
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Jun 26, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
True. If you are going to care for another life, make sure you can afford it!
Reply
:iconh-omokit:
h-omoKit Featured By Owner Jun 26, 2014
theres this one girl on here ((not gonna state a name)) and she strangled her dying rabbit because ''i didnt have enough money to take him to the vet!!" yet they just keep getting new pets 
they've had 99 pets in 2 years...
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Jun 28, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
:iconwtfboomplz: Seriously?!!!!!? If you have money for all those pets, you could take ONE to the vet!
Reply
:iconh-omokit:
h-omoKit Featured By Owner Jun 30, 2014
EXACTLY.
Reply
:iconkittyloveramethyst:
KittyloverAmethyst Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'm disgusted at whores who only breed for a living and not have the slightest dignity! Whenever I read a newspaper or magazine and see a page about single mothers with lots of kids moaning about how they are struggling to cope, I can't help but laugh at these breeding whores! instead of crying out for sympathy, stop have unprotected sex with the first man you see! get sterilized and get a job!
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I can understand tragic circumstances that make you a single mom but not your lack of birth control. You brought that on yourself.
Reply
:iconchaoticdarkangel:
ChaoticDarkAngel Featured By Owner Aug 25, 2013   Writer
This is why I'm not having kids. I see myself as an unfit parent so there's no way I'm going to raise children of my own. I'm shocked though that there are women that get pregnant for government support O_O That's not a real reason to have kids.
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
And those who need the support can't get it because of them. :iconfrageplz:
Reply
:iconchaoticdarkangel:
ChaoticDarkAngel Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2013   Writer
That's really not fair >< They need to think about the people who really need it instead of just themselves!
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
But they won't. It's all about them. Be a teen mom and get fame if not that Uncle Sam will pay for your baby.
Reply
:iconchaoticdarkangel:
ChaoticDarkAngel Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2013   Writer
Yup unfortunately some people think that. It's like those shows such as Teen Mom and Sixteen And Pregnant: Girls are getting pregnant now all over to be on that show thinking they'll get all that nice stuff and money it's sickening. My mom was a teen mom and she told me teen mothers do not have that kind of life style, she finds shows like that disgusting.
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You never see real teen moms anymore, all of them are glorified beyond belief.
Reply
:iconchaoticdarkangel:
ChaoticDarkAngel Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2013   Writer
Yeah. You never see ones that actually do care about their children's well being, but the ones on this show sound too whiny and self centered. Such a shame huh? Now some  people think all teen moms are like what they see on shows like that.
Reply
:iconaubuscus27:
Aubuscus27 Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2013  Student Digital Artist
i know what you mean , my mother , had me at 15 and had three more and recently i found out she was going to have another and i was suppose to have another brother or sister , but she got an abortion and dosent take care of my brothers and sister , and I feel bad for the kids that are in that situation cause that never had or will have a life that a kid deserves
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't want to sound mean to your mother but has she tried birth control?
Reply
:iconaubuscus27:
Aubuscus27 Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2013  Student Digital Artist
you didnt sound mean , and really i dont know shes an idiot
Reply
:iconphoenixskywriter:
PhoenixSkywriter Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Exactly!
Reply
:iconquietlyintheshadows:
quietlyintheshadows Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2012
I agree the world's already overpopulated and that kind of thing is one of the reasons why America's economy is being flushed down the toilet.
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Mar 10, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Yep.
Reply
:iconloopy-lass:
Loopy-Lass Featured By Owner Feb 7, 2012
I agree 100%
Reply
:iconhopeswings777:
HopeSwings777 Featured By Owner Feb 7, 2012
I agree with you 100%.
Reply
:iconbuoy-weasel:
buoy-weasel Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012
Well, I don't know how many women actually just get pregnant so they can get government assistance... Usually that's just a red herring bandied about by people who don't understand the need for welfare programs for the oppressed and underprivileged. It's a vital thing for many families and it's not usually so easy to get government assistance when someone needs it. In the US, anyway. And things do, yanno, happen where a child isn't exactly planned. But I do agree in general that people shouldn't be irresponsible when it comes to having kids. Have them because you *want* a child and you want to be a parent to them and can care for them. It's about a child's welfare, because if a child is mistreated it will last them a lifetime.

I'm more against people having kids because people tend to be asses, honestly... A lot of parents aren't good parents and don't think things through when it comes to raising children. A child shouldn't be a punishment, though. So I dunno what you're on about grandparents being punished for teenage pregnancy.
Reply
:iconnataliebaileyhardin:
NatalieBaileyHardin Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
They do it, I've personally met THREE who admitted to it.
Reply
:iconkajutashitakiukinapa:
KajutashiTakiukinapa Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
And here I was thinking I was the only one who thought that way. Kudos for saying what needed to be said!
Reply
:iconlim213:
Lim213 Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012
your views are ...immature to say the least on this topic. If everyone waited until they could support a kid with their "extra income" no one would ever have children. "Punishing" parents of teens who wind up pregnant? Are you serious, trolling or just plain retarded? Sorry kid but out here in the really real world us parents are spending upwards of 14 hours a day working our asses off to support you brats and all your needs, along with as many of your wants as we can manage. Teaching and talking to you idiots only goes so far and what happens when we're afk (away from kid) isn't up to us, and deserves no more punishment than having to help that kid raise the baby... another 18 years of parental servitude.. and you think we'd deserve more?

Welfare has not been "easy to abuse" for more than a decade now and it's getting harder and harder for people who really need it to get it, even for temporary problems or things that happen totally out of their control (layoffs, outsourcing, companies plain downsizing, machines doing more jobs, etc.) When you grow up and are saddled with kids of your own you'll hopefully start to develop a clue, but for now thanks for showing another glimpse into just how badly misinformed and ignorant the current generation of kids really is.

Now go listen to mommy and daddy complain about how their tax dollars go to welfare leeches some more because they themselves spent their lives leeching off the credit system based on fiat currency and are now blissfully unaware that in fact THAT is what their taxes are paying for. (I know it's so much more convenient for white middle class america to fall back on the racial stereotype and stir vigorously with entitlement and selfishness than to really look upwards towards the real problems in our economy.. sorry didn't mean to disrupt your willful blindness, carry on.)
Reply
:iconashiiashash:
AshiiAshAsh Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
i dnt even wanna hav a kid until i get into a STABLE married life!!
I lyk kids n awl, bt i wnt hav 1 until i knw that evrything's stable enuf 4 the arrival of a lil guy/girl, i dnt lyk preg teens, bt i dnt lyk the whole 'abortion' thibg either
i guess its kinda hypocritical bt i dunno :iconerrrplz:
Reply
:iconashiiashash:
AshiiAshAsh Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
well, not that i want the population 2 go down... O.O
bt lyk, i just want ppl 2 b a lil more careful
Reply
:iconberserkeroo:
Berserkeroo Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Student Digital Artist
And this is why I choose to wait until I'm financially stable. I don't want to birth kids, but I always wanted to adopt since there are so many children here who need a good mother.
Reply
:iconkittyangel21:
kittyangel21 Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
"Also I think the parents of pregnant teenagers should be punished too so that they will get more involved. My mom was involved in my life and I never got pregant. My fiancee's brother's mom not involved and he got a girl pregnant. Do the math."

now I can understand wanting to blam the parents but if you have a daughter that doesn't really care and won't linsten to her parents no matter what then is it really the parents fault? Yes I unerstand that the child is their responsibility but what about that bad seed,what do you do about them? Having a parent that is invloved in your life is a big help, but I think it also has something to do with how serious you take the situation, If you know how hard it is to take care of child than you probably would take the steps to not become pregnant in the first place.
Reply
:iconsakurawarrirorgirl:
SakuraWarrirorGirl Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
This is why I don't want to have kids, I mean I don't think I'll be capable of raising them so why should I have them right? My mom and nana told me, they'd be fine if I didn't give them grandchildren either. :3 And you're right, we have a billion if not more people on Earth so if one or more people decide not to have kids we won't die out or anything.
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I am not having kids until half the population is wiped out and even there there would be 3.5 billion people.
Reply
:iconsakurawarrirorgirl:
SakuraWarrirorGirl Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
O___o Why do you want the population to be wiped out? Not everyone is evil, if that's where you're getting at...
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I wasn't meaning that, I was just saying unless something happened I am not having kids and uping the population
Reply
:iconsakurawarrirorgirl:
SakuraWarrirorGirl Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Ohhh I see now. Sorry ^^;
Reply
:iconpurplephoneixstar:
PurplePhoneixStar Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
That's okay. :)
Reply
Add a Comment:
 
×




Details

Submitted on
February 6, 2012
Image Size
929 bytes
Resolution
100×56
Link
Thumb
Embed

Stats

Views
883
Favourites
125 (who?)
Comments
43
Downloads
17
×